Sarcastic, harsh, always right, superior, know it all, interrupts, talks over others, critical, put-downs, patronising, disrespectful of others. Believes or acts as if all the individuals involved are equal, each deserving of respect, and no more entitled than the other to have things done their way.
Believe they are entitled to have things done their way, the way they want it to be done, because they are right, and others and their needs are less important. Eyes Avoids eye contact, looks down, teary, pleading Warm, welcoming, friendly, comfortable eye contact.
Narrow, emotion-less, staring, expressionless Posture Makes body smaller — stooped, leaning, hunched shoulders. They may speak loudly, interrupting or talking over others. Aggressive behavior often also includes blaming others for mistakes. A person who is behaving assertively will be both respectful and clear when disagreeing with others. They are honest, fair, and direct and will match their body language to the expression of their message.
Assertive people make good eye contact and allow open participation in groups. Instead of talking over, assertive people will use a conversational tone while still expressing their opinion. While they are good at setting boundaries, people exhibiting assertiveness will also respect those around them. Download your chart here! Get my chart. This article originally appeared on Social Media Consulting by Carmine Media and has been republished with permission. Find out how to syndicate your content with B2C.
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Thanks for your good information I learned a lots from now I know the difference between the assertive, passive and aggressive person and I know who am I. Good day Jacqueline. A motivating discussion is definitely worth comment. To the next! All the best!! It very extraordinary to learn that we are all humanly able to change if we need to ,that is helpful when it is an attribute to develop ourselves physically and emotionally.
I have enjoyed reading about the ways of behavior and it is good to know that awareness is possible if you allow it and that we can fairly aim high and achieve our goals,respectfully acceptable to others around us with the same thought in mind. Could you please give some examples of aggressive speech vs assertive speech?
Like people who are exhibiting aggression say things like: ….. Aggression, or any other form of behaviour, is as much about attitude as language, if not more so. I am mixture of all of them but never invaded personal space of others as it can result unnecessary violence.
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